Dear Bert, It sounds as if you are having doubts about your new relationship, however, I feel that it has more to do with you than with her. Your female side must be embraced, and when it is, you will be able to relate better to the opposite sex. You yearn to be more creative, yet your practical side dominates. Do you see my. There is no occasion for worry unless the habit is carried to excess. But remember that until you are mature, the sex secretions are specially needed within your body, andif you use them wastefully before you are grown,you are depriving your body of whatit needs. So donot stimulate your sex organs into action intentionally. We'll give you just a single example: sex. In the years since Sigmund Freud made it the main event, human sexuality has been a bit sidelined from psychology. Scientists, like many people, can be prudes. Given the amount of time we think about sex, crave sex, have sex, or, more easily, purchase 50 Shades of Gray novels.